Hulu’s new biopic about the 35-year-old entrepreneur premiered on Sept. 8. Swiped stars Lily James as Wolfe Herd and traces her dramatic rise from Tinder cofounder to Bumble CEO and youngest woman to take a company public. But Wolfe Herd herself says the project has left her deeply uneasy.

In an interview with CNBC’s Julia Boorstin, Wolfe Herd admitted she only learned of the film once it was already “off to the races,” with a script in hand and production underway. Her discomfort ran so deep that she asked her lawyer to intervene.

“I even was asking my lawyer two years ago, ‘What do I do? I don’t want a movie made about me. Shut it down!'” Herd recalled.

As she acknowledged, public figures often have little legal recourse to stop projects based on publicly known stories.

The experience has been unsettling. Wolfe Herd said she finds the idea of a movie about her life “too weird,” confessing she hasn’t been able to watch the trailer all the way through. At the same time, she expressed some appreciation for the casting choice, calling it an “honor” to be portrayed by James. Still, the mix of emotions has left her conflicted.

 “I’m obviously both terrified and maybe slightly flattered,” she said. “But the strangeness and the fear of it outweighs any flattery.”

The film arrives at a moment when Hollywood has increasingly turned to Silicon Valley for inspiration. Hulu’s The Dropout chronicled Elizabeth Holmes and Theranos, Apple TV+’s WeCrashed dramatized Adam Neumann and WeWork, while older films put the lives of Steve Jobs and Mark Zuckerberg on screen.

These projects try to infuse the adrenaline of Silicon Valley invention with the staidness of business reality. And Wolfe Herd’s career—with its combination of early success, controversy, and ultimately a billion-dollar IPO—fits neatly into the genre.

Indeed, Wolfe Herd’s story is, in many ways, cinematic. Born in Salt Lake City, Utah, to a family invested in both philanthropy and property development, she launched her first business before 21, which was a bamboo tote bag project to raise funds for those affected by the BP oil spill of 2010. She was instrumental in Tinder’s meteoric rise but left following a high-profile lawsuit, only to cofound Bumble in 2014—a dating app premised on women making the first move. 

In 2021, Wolfe Herd became the youngest woman in history to take a company public, ringing the Nasdaq bell with her son on her hip. Today, Bumble boasts millions of users and a reputation for promoting safer, more empowering online interactions.

But success doesn’t always mean control over your own story. Hulu’s film, directed by Rachel Lee Goldenberg and drawing extensively from public records, lawsuits, and media accounts, bypassed Wolfe Herd’s participation from the start. Some critics have described the movie as entertaining but “thin,” relying on the broader narrative of girlboss ascent while acknowledging the lack of deep input from its subject.

It currently has a 37% rating on Rotten Tomatoes. 

For Wolfe Herd, the challenge is less about accuracy than about the loss of agency. As someone who built her career by upending traditional dynamics and giving women more control over their interactions online, having no say in how her own story is told feels dissonant. 

She admits she may eventually watch the film, but not without hesitation.

 “I guess I gotta get some popcorn and stay tuned,” she said with a wry resignation.